Sunday, February 04, 2007

Decode The Secrets

I was supposed to post my travelogue on Yana trip but I apologies for not being able to make up the time to prepare that draft yet. Instead I would like to brief on a short thought that occurred to me yesterday.
“Life is full of incidents, moments that we experience; some bad some good. But not leaving it just at that, if we closely study each incident then there hides a secret. By breaking those codes we learn that some supernatural power is constantly hinting us how to live, how to shape our future and provides a solution for most of our problems.”
I have always analyzed the past experiences and derived at my own philosophy of life. But there are times when in spite of all the ideology, in spit of all those principles we commit mistakes, we stop thinking clearly on our behaviors. That’s when some incidents happen and it’s left to us to learn from them. Some power is clearly pointing out a truth, and answer to our problems in form of another event.
I don’t know if I should call it irony or game set by my God. I had a very weird experience couple of days back. I am sure; God has played a very funny and ironic game with me. He gave me something I had once desired but at a time when I cared the least about it. My focus had changed and my priorities different and he gifts me with something once needed but presently unacceptable. I am broken by that not so good experience and unable to answer anyone had to suppress my thoughts.
How easy it would be to hug a best friend and transfer all your unsaid thoughts and worries without having spoken a word? But it simply doesn’t work that way; the thoughts still bother.
But I am not the kind of person who allows such thoughts to bother me for ever. I need a solution for it and until I find it I don’t rest in peace. So knowingly or unknowingly I analyze the situation. And what I found was a lesson; a secret that when decoded from that incident made my belief in a super power even more strong. I was provided with a lesson not to commit the same mistake which if not identified, I would have. From that incident I learnt what not to do.
This is not the first time I am noticing such coded incidents, many such incidents have occurred in front of my eyes, with me or others to show some basic truths like – One has to pay for his deeds. One needs to repay for his sins and many more such truths. And the way it is brought to you is ironic and that tells that God loves to mock at you sometimes. By the end of all this, you admire him more because in spite of the bad experiences he has given you, in spite of being ironic, he has saved you from a disaster elsewhere, in turn he has reminded you how to live, how to love unconditionally and how to live happily without expectations.
Life is full of experiences and I have had enough good or bad incidents through out my life. And in every one of them lies a code; a mystery to be solved; to be understood; to be decoded in order to live a better life. Decode your secrets today. :-)


  1. No so easy for everyone Ajeya to decode these secrets.

  2. Powerful post Ajeya. I have to agree with Mridula. It is easier for some than others to decode those secrets. Still we should all strive to.

  3. Great thought put in words. Its always not easy to decode the feelings, thoughts and put them in words like you did. I liked it.

    On going through your post, I had this thought about God. We usually associate God with anything good (I hope you agree). How could a good God mock at us? If He does, then he is no different than our wife or children or friends or relatives or even parents..... and is unworthy to be "God"?

    It is always true that when we isolate from the world (i mean usually when lonely) and start thinking the issues of life we face many questions....and obviously not always do we have an answer. We look out for a FRIEND to help us.......

  4. @ Mridula & Travel Plaza - Is it? May be everyone does not observe it so closely at all times.

    @ Dove - When I use the word Mock...It’s not in any bad sense. Of course the word when used for humans means deliberate action to insult someone. But if you read clearly through the lines; I have tried to convey that God does that based on a good intention. We need to repay for our deeds. In my case it was an ironic incident that pointed me out that what i was about to do was terribly wrong.

    And I strongly believe that one's best friend is none other than himself.

  5. Decodin the secrets!!! only if everyone cld do it successfully!!!

  6. Never really thought seriously about decoding ..

    I read somewhere ... we are like tea bags..Our true strength comes out only when we go through difficulties/experiences in life. So if we are facing too many problems , we might be God s favourite cup of tea !! and will come out better !

    u have put down complex thoughts in a simple , effective words... very thought provoking...

  7. @ Thanks. The tea cup funda may be right in some senses. Infact afterall all such sayings tell you to think positively.

  8. Wow! This post is great and it's SO true.

    We, as curious beings with past experiences/education shaping our personalities do enjoy trying to see more, understand more, and strive to find a logical answer for things that come across our lives. However, I wonder if some of them are better to be left as secrets? Ironic, isn't it?

  9. :-) Thanks Edmund, Yes its better some things remain as secrets, if they dont bother you.


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