tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post3874424770286241962..comments2024-03-16T14:45:41.521+05:30Comments on The Hours - My Memoir: Judged!AJEYA RAOhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15770471904480140472noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-10791508127353799292010-07-02T15:54:59.724+05:302010-07-02T15:54:59.724+05:30Sure Mak...All that should matter is our understan...Sure Mak...All that should matter is our understanding of what we are not not what others expect from us.AJEYA RAOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15770471904480140472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-15989792419929344352010-07-01T20:38:15.148+05:302010-07-01T20:38:15.148+05:30Perhaps the best time for me to have read this pos...Perhaps the best time for me to have read this post Ajeya. It is indeed the most frequently faced hurdle for me. Thanks a lot.<br />Would be learning to ignore ...as early as i can. :-)Makhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01046965116254926715noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-82397507347746457282010-05-05T15:46:39.672+05:302010-05-05T15:46:39.672+05:30Edmund - Love and friendship is based on compatibi...Edmund - Love and friendship is based on compatibilty and comfort zone you share. But a step ahead....would it be of any good if you judge your friend or love? I think we should never judge people and it always does bad...Let people be as they are and you accept them for what they are but not what they could be.AJEYA RAOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15770471904480140472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-69890138140213093182010-05-05T06:14:23.916+05:302010-05-05T06:14:23.916+05:30Interesting view. However, I find that not-judgin...Interesting view. However, I find that not-judging is very difficult to achieve. There are so many people in the world, we can refer them as passerbys. As we get to know them better; some become acquaintances, friends, while a few develop into an intimate relationship or buddies. If we don't have some sort of criteria; it is almost impossible for us to attain the threads of relationship we have now. Is it not true that everyone has to be judged in order to develop something like friendship and love? ;)Edmleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12408225117047402607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-55002892030397186962010-05-05T01:39:27.104+05:302010-05-05T01:39:27.104+05:30@Lakshmi
But that may lead to narcissism:p
@Ajey...@Lakshmi<br /><br />But that may lead to narcissism:p<br /><br />@Ajeya<br /><br />But only when we're wrong about someone, we try not to make the same mistake next time; or have certain 'expectations':pkishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13318546513839897126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-59530098647407870512010-05-04T11:30:51.648+05:302010-05-04T11:30:51.648+05:30Nice blog Ajeya. This blog made me remember a nice...Nice blog Ajeya. This blog made me remember a nice quote which i read recently “The mind acts like an enemy for those who do not control it.”Sundar Rajhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05662228869323652644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-13336938345253809202010-05-04T09:29:40.758+05:302010-05-04T09:29:40.758+05:30Kish - Well even though the process is worth allt ...Kish - Well even though the process is worth allt hat, dont you agree that you have failed yourself rather than the person being judged? Perhaps its our (always) unrealistic expectations on others that fail us.AJEYA RAOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15770471904480140472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-25946745982231863062010-05-03T21:12:44.497+05:302010-05-03T21:12:44.497+05:30Awesome! In life, one finds a great deal of peace ...Awesome! In life, one finds a great deal of peace when one does not exercise the power of judgement upon his fellow beings! <br /><br />Brilliant write!Rakesh Vanamalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03918768913569739758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-76921224386611475662010-05-03T20:39:18.845+05:302010-05-03T20:39:18.845+05:30I think this is something that is hard to put into...I think this is something that is hard to put into words, but you have managed it!<br />But Judging a person in a certain way; having expectations and then being proved wrong, is worth the whole process for me:)kishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13318546513839897126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-50235654184261882872010-05-03T12:43:17.381+05:302010-05-03T12:43:17.381+05:30Anupama - Thanks... The article came first and ins...Anupama - Thanks... The article came first and inspired the painting.<br /><br />I am not sure if I may be giving the right answer for every situation. What i have learnt is, when i ignore others opinion, i ignore their measuring method too, According to me one never needs to judge oneself...if one learns to flow with the moment and become instinctive. I do soemthing because i like doing it....kind of attitude.<br /><br />And all being said, i know it is the hardest thing to do, in the type of society that we live in whihc keeps traping us back with their net of words.AJEYA RAOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15770471904480140472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-21488183037856936492010-05-03T09:19:21.071+05:302010-05-03T09:19:21.071+05:30nice painting there!!
okay now we can ignore thei...nice painting there!!<br /><br />okay now we can ignore their judgment, but how do we unlearn judging ourselves with their yardstick... ?anupamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12624128590914305975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-78986534751243213392010-05-03T07:46:16.456+05:302010-05-03T07:46:16.456+05:30Mridula - I am not sure why you said that...I am n...Mridula - I am not sure why you said that...I am not talking of religion here.AJEYA RAOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15770471904480140472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-88532755812285519762010-05-02T20:22:45.262+05:302010-05-02T20:22:45.262+05:30I stay away from religion most of the time.I stay away from religion most of the time.Mridulahttp://blogs.gonomad.com/traveltalesfromindia/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-79798200940467621952010-05-02T13:39:12.834+05:302010-05-02T13:39:12.834+05:30Anjuli - :-) i did see some videos on Youtube by t...Anjuli - :-) i did see some videos on Youtube by that name. Cool one's. These are situational and there are some more judgments that are intentional.AJEYA RAOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15770471904480140472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-49393191505997481112010-05-02T11:08:49.778+05:302010-05-02T11:08:49.778+05:30All too true- it is easy to judge and yet so wrong...All too true- it is easy to judge and yet so wrong. There is a cute video going around on Youtube which is called "Don't judge too quickly" (or something like that) - and it puts into perspective how we often leap to conclusions without knowing the full story. We need to be slow to pass judgement.<br /><br />Great post!!Anjulihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563616683370799899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-17560700469280325872010-05-01T22:46:23.099+05:302010-05-01T22:46:23.099+05:30lakshmi Very true...all that matters is what we th...lakshmi Very true...all that matters is what we think abt ourself. NOthing else shouldAJEYA RAOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15770471904480140472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27450131.post-49287543314559091472010-05-01T22:27:41.719+05:302010-05-01T22:27:41.719+05:30one of the best posts ive read today..problem is w...one of the best posts ive read today..problem is we are busy judging and evaluating each other that we forget we are victims of perceptions too..for me, there is just one pair of eyes that matters and thats mineLakshmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10131764134144215720noreply@blogger.com